Betty Lou Milner

  • Born: August 27, 1924
  • Died: June 2, 2019
  • Location: San Antonio, Texas

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2102 North Loop 1604 East
San Antonio, TX 78232
Tel. (210) 495-8221

Tribute & Message From The Family

Betty Lou Milner, 94, passed away on Sunday, June 2, 2019 in San Antonio, Texas. She was born on August 27, 1924 in Ada, OK to parents Homer and Lena Jumper.

Betty attended the University of Oklahoma, where she received degrees in English and music. She later taught high school English and music and was well known for helping students put on musical and drama performances.

Betty married Everett Milner in 1950 and together they had one son, Michael. She supported Everett in his career with the United States Air Force. While stationed in Paris, France, they enjoyed traveling Europe and collecting French antiques. The couple enjoyed flying in their private plane and playing bridge. They eventually settled in San Antonio, Texas so that Michael could finish out his high school and college years.

Betty had a life-long love of music, learning to play the piano at a very young age and maintaining very impressive musical talent over her lifetime. She enjoyed gardening and was very active in the community, serving on the officer's wives committee, the Tuesday Musical Club, the Glen Oaks Garden Club, and the Lydia circle at the Trinity Methodist Church.

A woman of strong character, Betty had high expectations of people and of herself. She could be stubborn and fiercely independent while also very kind and extremely generous. Betty made lifelong friends wherever she lived, served others daily, and gave generously to organizations and causes she believed in. She made a point of getting to know her neighbors, having frequent and formal dinner parties, caring for anyone that was sick, and routinely driving others to their doctor appointments and errands. She kept up with friends and relatives near and far, calling various ones every day to stay in touch. One neighbor recently commented that Betty was the "jewel of the neighborhood."

Betty was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, Everett Milner, and her son, Michael Milner. She is survived by her grandson, Jason and his wife Jennifer, her great-grandchildren Madisyn and Malachi, and her daughter-in-law, Norma.

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Pastor Bob Clark will officiate. Interment will follow in Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimers Organization.


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The Engle Family will miss your smile and thoughtfulness. Aunt Betty thank you for being so kind to our family for many years. Gudrun Engle, John Delano Engle, Lori Engle and son Kennedy Delano Engle

Posted by Lori Engle - San Antonio, TX   June 12, 2019

Betty was such a beautiful and interesting. Loved to hear her stories about her travels and garden club and helping her friends out. Was sad when she couldn't come to get her hair done.

Posted by Jennifer Johnston - San Antonio, TX - Friend   June 08, 2019

Rest in peace, dear Betty. So glad we were able to get to know you and Ev. Our beautiful grandchildren can now carry on your legacy.

Posted by Dottie and Beau - Austin, TX - Family   June 08, 2019

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